Remember - it's a month of reruns!
On Wednesday, the band teacher had "try-outs" for the Star Spangled Banner, to be played at the next 6th grade concert. Each student could decide if he/she wanted to try out or not. There really wasn't any pressure. But at the end of each performance, the teacher would tell the student - yes, you will play with the special group at the next concert for that song, or no, you will not.
My son, who at one time had counseling for anxiety issues, couldn't decide if he was going to try out or not. He practiced Monday and Tuesday nights. The high note didn't sound right to me. He said, it's right, Mom. Okay, I thought, maybe they haven't learned the really high note, so they're playing it this way? (how stupid, I now realize - the band teacher would never let the song be played that way). But at the time, I don't know, I just thought, okay, whatever.
I gave him lots of pep talks Tuesday and Wednesday. The good, motherly ones. You know it's okay if you try and get a no. At least you tried, which is more than a lot of kids will do. If you don't try, won't you wonder later what would have happened if you did?
Wednesday after school, he came home. I waited patiently for him to tell me. He didn't say anything. Finally, I asked.
Him: I had 3 mistakes. I played the high note 3 times and each time it was wrong. To get a yes, you can't have any note mistakes. You can squeak a little, that's okay, but no wrong notes.
Me: Oh, I'm so sorry.
Him: Mom, I was so nervous, my whole body was shaking. And I squeaked a lot. But I got all the notes right except that one I was playing wrong.
Me: Did the teacher show you the note it should be?
Him: Yes. And we can have a redo on Friday.
Me: You can??? A redo? Are you going to try again?
Him: I don't know. I was so nervous. It was terrible. I thought I was going to throw up. I don't know if I can do it again.
Last night, he asked his dad to say a prayer with him, about having courage to try again today. And to do well.
He played the song again today.
And he got a YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am so proud of my boy.
"O'er the land of the free, and the home of the BRAVE!"
A good reminder that sometimes, we don't get it right the first time. But if we keep trying, anything can happen!
(originally posted at Livejournal 2.10.06)
To quote Galaxy Quest (which I sadly do WAY too often) Never give up! Never Surrender! But, wow. Major props to your son for not giving up. Glad it paid off for him.ReplyDelete
Thanks for sharing such a beautiful story. Glad I could catch it the second time around. :)